Anonymous asked: Why should someone have to "dress for her shape"? Does she have some obligation to please your/any other random person's eye? NO! She can wear whatever she pleases because it's her body to flaunt as she pleases! It's a shame how judgmental you are.
Let’s take a moment to recognize the fact I openly shared my thoughts as MYSELF for everyone to identify who the opinion belongs to on a page where I am open about my faults, good points, and in betweens while you decided to hide and share your opinion anonymously…..
Ok, now that that’s understood and digested, I shall proceed.
1) Anon, bye. If she has enough confidence to exhibit herself and style for what/who it/she is, I highly doubt the opinion of the internet shall change her style. My opinion on style and fashion is mine. When you put yourself out there, you accept the fact that you will get all types of opinions, not just praise.
2)Who the hell said she can’t wear what she wants to wear?………..,huh? She obviously already did so that boat has already sailed and you obviously missed it. My page exhibits my opinion. My opinion is obviously not welcome by you because you are someone who, demonstrated by your response to my opinion and POV, believes you can only praise someone and if you give anything other than that, it’s automatically marked as “negativity”, “hate”, or as you like to say, being “judgmental”. Calm your tits, dude.
3)I know people who feel the same way as I do. A lot of those people usually only admit to feeling the same way I do when someone else expresses it first. That person being me in this case. The only reason why they dont admit it at first s because they’re afraid of running into people who believe they’re being “negative” or “judgmental” when i fact, we’re just expressing our truth. As a plus-sized female, I’m tired of people clinging to ANYTHING plus-size no matter how frumpy, tacky, or uncomplimentary it may be simply because we’re led to believe there’s a lack of fashionable resources/garments out there for us. Today, that is all wrong. We are on the up and up and we no longer have to cling to just anything plus-sized we find. We don’t have to be thristy for the plus-size anymore. We are fashionable beings. Not just frump toads that have to accept anything we’re given. That was my point as you obviously already read. I utilized this chick as an example. An example to remind us that we don’t have to accept everything just because it’s handed to us. Aka just because a plus-size chick ..shit, wears clothes, doesnt automatically mean she’s fashionable or even did the outfit justice.
4) The outfit is an example of an outfit that would work on a skinnier girl. Point blank period. The leggings don’t compliment her shape AT ALL. We can’t just take what’s given to us just bc it’s given to us…We have to recognize the fact that not all garments work on all shapes and sizes. I know a lot of plus-sized women agree with me when I say that and are annoyed when they see other plus-sized women giving us a bad name by taking “skinny garments” in plus sizes and throwing them on. AKA not utilizing garments that compliment our shape.
Lastly, to answer your question, “Why should someone have to dress for her shape?” Because you’ll look frumpy and/or tacky with a huge helping of making us plus-sized chicks a bad rap in the fashion world.
It’s obviously all my opinion. We all have our own brains. At the end of the day, my opinion can be considered or disregarded. Some will relate, some will disagree. Either way, I don’t give a fuck because I’m going to share it anyways.
PS: If the chick who I used as an example actually reads this, I hope you are unlike this anon individual and realize fashion is subjective and you simply exemplified something I see in the plus-size fashion world that I felt I needed to point out. Once again, if she has a blog, pretty sure she knows by now that you’re going to get different opinions. I’m not even hating. I’m just not 100% praising and simply pointed something out that was more so neutral than anything. It’s not all black and white, there are grey areas.
PPS: Anon, do you have the balls to back your opinion up with your identity or are you going to continue to hide while I openly share mine, tangibly?6 months ago
FOREVER reblog lmaooooooo hilarious everytime it starts over lol
(Source: lmaogtfo)6 months ago